our story

It all began on the evening of Nov 29th 2003, at former Chat Noir French Restaurant in Costa Mesa, CA. Brad approached me [Jana] and we instantly connected; it was love at first sight. The next 4 years that followed were a whirlwind of romance, growing pains, and adventures. We circled the globe, traveling to South America, Europe, and Asia. Then one night, Brad surprised me with a romantic beachside proposal. We made it official on August 23rd 2008 with an intimate wedding at a hip art gallery in Laguna Beach. A year later we finished redesigning our home in the beach village of Corona del Mar.

On May 18th, 2010, we were blessed with a sweet little miracle of our own, our baby boy Taj Leon. He stole our hearts and took our breath away! Then, 19 months later, his incredible little brother, Jax Franz, arrived on Christmas morning (December 25th) 2011. What an amazing gift we received! In an effort to slow down the clock and enjoy our beautiful family, in Spring of 2012, we sold our CA seaside home and moved across the country to our dream lake house in Brad's hometown of Bemus Point, a resort village on Chautauqua Lake in Western New York! Even though we are living a more slow paced life, we are living a life far from ordinary!

From the West Coast to the East Coast, our Grover family adventures continue! So won't you come along and join us on this journey of love, family, and travel we like to call our La Vida Grover!

Sunday, March 29, 2015

NYC New Years 2015

Ringing in the new year in New York City…. CHECK! I checked this experience off my bucket list and have Brad to thank for planning it all out!  We left the boys at home with our very responsible babysitter Kaitlynn and drove into the City for 2 nights over New Years.   We stayed at our friends Chris and Emily's apartment in Chelsea and had an amazing time reuniting and celebrating with not only them but our California friends Griffin & Jane, and Marc Davis!  Griffin and Jane live in Sweden now and they were out for the holidays visiting Griffin's family in Albany and met up with us in NYC. Marc Davis planned to meet up with all of us and ring in the new year too!
First thing we did when we rolled into the City, is Brad and I walked the High Line and got some margaritas and mexican food at Brad's favorite Mexican restaurant in the Meatpacking District.  What I love the most about our little getaways is that for a brief moment we fully focus on each other like the pre-marriage and pre-kids days and its the little things like walking hand-in-hand, toasting with our margaritas, or taking selfies such as the one above that really make our time together so special and exhilirating!
Chelsea Market- such a cool artsy place to visit!

First night- dinner with friends


The next day, on New Years Eve, I met Dina up for lunch.  She now lives and works in NYC.  It was great to see her and catch up since CA last Winter.  


Then on NYE evening, we all met up for dinner prior to our hotel party.


It was pretty exciting walking through the streets of Times Square from the restaurant to the hotel party.  There were barricades everywhere and street closures due to the New Years festivities.  We felt pretty cool showing our tickets and being let through the barricades to get to the hotel that was directly off of Times Square.  We passed hundreds of people who had been there all day and evening long, and i was so thankful we got to dress up nice and had a party to go to instead of standing outside on the street all night long.  Our party started at 10pm and went all the way to 3am.  They had an open bar and appetizers all night long and an incredibly fun DJ spinning 80s, 90s, and current music!  We danced and partied our booties off, and just before midnight the party hosts ushered us out to the street to witness the countdown and the confetti!





our table




this was our group out on the street by Times Square…. partaking in the cheering and drinking, and seconds from the clock turning 2015!



It was an unforgettable experience that I will always treasure, and this photo describes the emotion and thrill of it all!  Every person on the street was so friendly and happy… strangers wishing you Happy New Year and giving out hugs! There were people cheering and singing, and the sound of the Frank Sinatra's "New York, New York" song playing in the background.  It was raining rainbow confetti, balloons, and ticker tape, and it was such a beautiful sight!  I love the energy of New York City!  Truly one if not THE greatest city in the world!  I was fortunate to capture that moment on video!!! Its a pretty loud video and Griffin is trying to kiss Brad the whole time!  LOL

IMG 3269 from jana grover on Vimeo.
More dancing after the street celebrating!  Ah, what a night!  We almost stayed up to watch the sun rise…. that's how much fun we had!  I LOVE NYC…. the City that never sleeps!

2014- Year in Review

What an incredible ride we have been on with the boys, and our 2014 took it to a whole new level.  We   traveled more, learned more, achieved more, evolved more, and best of all, created even more memories as a family.  We settled into our WNY life a little bit more as well, as our social calendar was always full, met even more friends (with similar age children), and were fortunate to have a babysitter to help us at a minute's notice.  It was also a year, Brad and I resumed, if not tripled, our date nights, group dinner dates, concerts, fancy dress up parties, adult boating days during the summer, and especially those overnighters sans kids!  We began 2014 with a solo trip (a "post-2 kids" honeymoon) to Miami, FL…. and like they say, how you spend the first days of the new year is a reflection of the year to come.  We saw Babi & Deda not only out here for the 2013 Christmas season, but again in California where we spent 3 weeks of our Feb-March Winter, and then again for a special Thanksgiving in CA close to the end of the year.  California travel was high on our list in 2014, spending a combined 31 days on the West Coast… that is a little over a month!  We also took advantage of any excuse we had to visit friends and celebrate our friends' special occasions, whether it was in California, or Charleston, South Carolina, or Punta Mita, Mexico, or in NYC.  We had many visitors, 5 to be exact, from CA, SC, AZ, and Germany that made our Summer of 2014 super fun and busy.

We added finishing touches to our house renovations (like our beautiful drapes), updated the guest bathroom and guest room, fixed and updated some outdoor things, had a shed built in the backyard, and the boys received a beautiful Amish playground.  2014 was also the year I did my first gardening and our house never looked more beautiful with all the floral and hanging plants…. especially the seasonal front door decor and plants!  We got new patio furniture too that made entertaining even more pleasurable!

2014 was the year that Taj got a new bunk bed, learned how to ski and swim, learned how to fish, began riding a bike with training wheels, started karate, and attended a daily UPK preschool at the big boy elementary school and may I add, has been at the top of his class ever since! He also began riding the school bus home…. another big boy milestone.  He matured and became responsible and a helpful 4 year old.  In 2014, Jax became fully potty trained and we said buh-bye to diapers (only pull-ups overnight), stopped taking lunch time naps, began assisting mommy at Story time every week at the Ashville Library, became a huge book worm, and very verbal and mischievious!

Together, in 2014, these brothers attached at the hip even more.  They were inseparable everywhere they went and whatever they did.  Despite Taj meeting new friends at his new school and seeing his old friends from time to time (they go to different schools), every weekday after school and all weekend long he and Jax created and played many games, pretend play, colored and drew galore, built amazing cities and cars out of Legos, and wrestled.  They are the best of friends, and have an unbreakable bond that seems to grow each year they grow.  They are each other's perfect play buddy, they help and learn from each other, and of course, they also disagree and fight over toys.  What is amazing to me, is how many wonderful adventures and experiences they have shared already, especially this past year.  Jax is finally big enough and old enough to do a lot of the things Taj enjoys, and he gets a kick out of Jax copying him and following him around.  With the boys growing, we have been able to have more fun with them!
Here's a recap of our adventurous year and the beautiful experiences the boys had:

 Fun times with Babi & Deda

 Cousin bonding in California

 our special family time at our Laguna Beach, CA cottage…. an annual tradition 
(Sea World, LegoLand, and Disney as well)

 Winter snowmen and "penguin" sledding…. Taj's skiing too!

 Girlfriends and alligators in Charleston, South Carolina

 Bike rides, ice cream, and fishing

 Learning to dive at the resort's infinity pool and 
finding hermit crabs on the beach in Punta Mita, Mexico!

 Becoming world class travelers
 Swinging and boating fun during the summer months

 our many adventurous family hikes all Summer and Fall




 Dinosaur convention

 Falling in love with NYC!  They are city boys at heart themselves ;-)
 Beach time all year long.  From West Coast, to the Mexican Coast, 
The Great Lakes beach time, the South, to the East Coast….. especially the beach at the Hamptons!

Feeding animals at the wildlife safari and riding big bikes at pumpkin patches

Phew!  Another crazy good year behind us…. another new one about to start!  We cherish the time and memories we are blessed with!
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