our story

It all began on the evening of Nov 29th 2003, at former Chat Noir French Restaurant in Costa Mesa, CA. Brad approached me [Jana] and we instantly connected; it was love at first sight. The next 4 years that followed were a whirlwind of romance, growing pains, and adventures. We circled the globe, traveling to South America, Europe, and Asia. Then one night, Brad surprised me with a romantic beachside proposal. We made it official on August 23rd 2008 with an intimate wedding at a hip art gallery in Laguna Beach. A year later we finished redesigning our home in the beach village of Corona del Mar.

On May 18th, 2010, we were blessed with a sweet little miracle of our own, our baby boy Taj Leon. He stole our hearts and took our breath away! Then, 19 months later, his incredible little brother, Jax Franz, arrived on Christmas morning (December 25th) 2011. What an amazing gift we received! In an effort to slow down the clock and enjoy our beautiful family, in Spring of 2012, we sold our CA seaside home and moved across the country to our dream lake house in Brad's hometown of Bemus Point, a resort village on Chautauqua Lake in Western New York! Even though we are living a more slow paced life, we are living a life far from ordinary!

From the West Coast to the East Coast, our Grover family adventures continue! So won't you come along and join us on this journey of love, family, and travel we like to call our La Vida Grover!

Tuesday, September 28, 2010

First Spoon Feeding

Taj is now eating rice cereal for dinner! I gave him the spoon to play with all day so he was familiar with it, but he still had a puzzled look on his face when we fed him with it! He was such a good boy though, tasting and swallowing carefully...... although about half of it ended up on his chin and bib!



Music to My Ears

Taji saying "mama"!:

Sunday, September 26, 2010

While Daddy's Away, Mommy & Taji will Play!

While Brad went to Bemus, NY for a long weekend to meet with contractors and get our summer cottage suped up for next summer, Taji and I enjoyed some wonderful mother-son bonding! Originally, Aunt Petra and cousin Chloe were supposed to come stay with us but Aunt Petra was feeling sick :( Peti, hope you feel better soon so we can get together next weekend!! This weekend also happened to be a MAJOR heatwave, and I'm not kidding...... 98 degrees at the beach, seriously?!!! We don't have air conditioning because we live by the beach, but in the last couple days I have been wishing we had it!

Taji stayed cool by lounging in his diaper.....


we tried our stroller's seat attachment, and Taj loved it! Doesn't he look like a big boy?

We played under a tree at our neighborhood park

Then today, Sunday, we waited until it cooled down and took a sunset stroll on the beach,

Taji got so many compliments and smiles on his cute Quicksilver hat..... matches daddy's!

We can't wait for Daddy to come home tomorrow..... but Mommy got so used to having Taj all to herself that she will have a hard time sharing him! ;)

Saturday, September 25, 2010

Taj turns 4 months old!

Happy 4 month birthday to our very own Mr. Dimples! At 4 months, Taj weighs 14lbs (30th percentile) and is 25 inches long (71st percentile). In the last month, he accomplished so much in little time. Our handsome little boy is now rolling from tummy-to-back AND back-to-tummy (he did this at the doctor's office last week!). He has a very strong grip and excellent fine motor skills! He pulls his pacifier in and out of his mouth, can pull blankets up and over his face and back down, transfers objects from hand to hand, and even picks up our little lumbard pillows over his head. He mouths everything, and I mean EVERYTHING goes in his mouth! He is especially interactive now, and likes to take turns in "conversations." You can hear Taji babbling various vowels: the aaa's. ooo's, o's, eh's. He started off saying "ma" and "ama" and then put them together and said "ma-ma"!!! I got so teary-eyed!!! He will say "maaaamaaa" when he wants to eat, when I leave the room, or when he wants us to come get him out of his crib in the morning. We have also heard him babble to himself, it is the cutest thing! Taj is quite the character, he laughs at the most random things, and has a preference for certain toys.

This past month, we introduced him to his rainforest jumperoo (he is still trying to figure out how to bounce, but it is something new and exciting for him!)

He does great in daycare, loves to observe and socialize with the other babies. And for the first time, Taji stayed home one evening with our babysitter Sonya, while we went to celebrate Jamie's 30th birthday. Here he is with Sonya:

We feel pretty fortunate to have such great care-takers, Taj is easily adaptable and enjoys both Charlotte (daycare teacher) and Sonya (babysitter/ housekeeper).

For his 4th month celebration, we had a special guest in town... Uncle Hink! (Brad's best friend). He spent the week with us and then we got together with our other friends on Sep 18th for Taj's b-day! We took the duffy boat out, and had lunch at the new CommonWealth restaurant on the bay! Auntie Sabrina (my dear friend from college) surprised Taji with a visit as well and brought him a gift! Taj enjoyed everyone's company and loved being held! Here are some pics from last saturday:

being silly with Uncle Hink....
getting squeezed and loved on by Auntie Sabrini.....

cruising with the boys.....


cuddling with Jerry's girlfriend Allison....

and last but not least, our 4th month family portrait!

Friday, September 17, 2010

Living Green & Healthy

This is probably one of the most important posts I write, and it's been a long time coming. I have been asked why I use glass baby bottles, why I buy Seventh Generation diapers, why organic food?...... well friends, the 3 are all very much connected. After years of researching and also speaking with people that have similar concerns as myself, I have finally finished cleansing our home of environmental toxins and am SO happy to provide my family with healthy GREEN living. As a wife and now a mother, it is my job to take care of my family's health, diet, and ensure a clean pure home. It is the most important job I have (next to raising our baby)! I also feel it is my duty to be earth-conscious, and set a good example for Taji, so that he and his family may have a clean and beautiful world to enjoy. I believe in moderation, and that balance is key. But before I go any further, I write this not to offend anyone, but to educate and explain why I do the things I do.... and maybe to encourage and inspire others to make a change for a healthier tomorrow.

BPA, Chemicals, and Synthetics Study after study reveal the dangers of BPA plastics, the harm they do to our body and our environment. Its no joke we live in a plastic world.... we buy food packaged in plastic, eat/ drink out of plastic tupperware, plates, bottles, utensils.. ugh! plastic overload!!! Plastic is made of synthetic materials, and anything that touches it can easily absorb the chemicals it is made with, including us. Just recently I saw a news story about how BPA found in children's dental sealant (to prevent cavities) has been linked to behavioral problems, and a host of health issues in children and adults. BPA plastics have also been connected to the increase in neurological disorders and ADHD in children. Even though most quality plastic baby bottles are now made free of BPA, Pthalates, and PVC, I personally prefer to limit the amount of plastic Taj is exposed to. I love the Born Free glass bottles. Besides being chemical free, glass is better for use and storage of milk, especially breastmilk, due to its anti-bonding qualities. Antibodies and good cells from milk tend to adhere to plastic therefore depleting your baby's nutrients.
Because Taj has sensitive skin like Brad and I, I'm also very picky what I bathe him with, and the diapers he wears all day long. Did you know that the popular and most common diapers have all been bleached to get that "white" color, and many contain tons of fragrance, and other synthetic chemicals...no wonder some babies break out in rashes! What's more disgusting is that these diapers last over 100 years in the landfill. Enter Seventh Generation diapers.... only a buck or two more than the popular Pampers, but they are all-natural, no bleach, no dyes or fragrance, eco-friendly, and they prevent diaper rash! Because Seventh Generation is so great, we use their whole line of GREEN household cleaning products, including laundry detergent and dishwashing liquid.

Environmental Toxins Is our food industry the same as it was 20 years ago when we were kids? No. Is obesity and early on-set of puberty in girls becoming a problem with our youth? Sadly, yes. Are more and more people developing allergies to gluten and other foods, becoming lactose intolerant, and/or suffering from intestinal digestive issues? Its scary, but true. Is the number of ADHD diagnosis, Autism, Neurological/ Developmental disorders, and learning disabilities on the rise? Yep. Is there a connection? Definitely. I am a firm believer that as we destroy our environment with synthetic materials and chemicals, our environment is slowly making us sick. What comes around, goes around. What we put in the earth, in the air, in the water..... we eat, breathe, and absorb. The combination of environmental toxins, tweeked food supply, and our fragile genetic predispositions gives way to gastrointestinal issues, fertility issues, and diseases/ disorders in children. Unless we create a bubble around us and our loves ones, we have to fight this war to detoxify. As I mentioned above, we use only GREEN household cleaning products, diapers, reuse and recycle plastics bags and bottles (we love our monthly Arrowhead water delivery), and try to be as energy efficient as we can be. I did quite a bit of research on immunizations as well and found that although we have a valid responsibility to erradicate and prevent diseases, we also can't possibly inject our babies with a million vaccines. Again, this brings us back to moderation. My moderation is to protect Taj against the most common and scary diseases and viruses while carefully watching for possible side effects from some of the nasty ingredients used to make these vaccines. Have you read the article about the latest autism vaccine lawsuit settlement? The age old question isn't "do vaccines cause autism?", but "how many number of vaccines will you administer at the same time to cause a serious allergic reaction and harm to a child's growing body?"

SO.....Who's Your Farmer?!! Our farmers are small family farmers located in Central California, who provide us with only their freshest produce, poultry, and eggs through Abundant Harvest Organics. I am very excited to share this hidden gem! There are a bunch of farm delivery services and businesses out there but from my research, Abundant Harvest Organics is unique in that you not only get produce in-harvest but you can add on organic chicken, pastured chicken eggs, even grass-fed beef! By supporting our local farmers, we are also saving our environment. After shopping at Trader Joes for many years I began to question and feel suspicious why we buy organic produce from foreign countries when we have farmers here in our backyard. Everything within the food industry is dictated by business and money, rather than health and logic. I refuse and am disgusted to buy chicken and eggs from these big industrial chicken farms who raise overcrowded, dirty, and unhealthy chickens that never see daylight. No thanks salmonella eggs! No thanks hormone -injected chickens! Knowing all this information could definitely make you a vegetarian! I prefer my happy healthy california chickens that peck at the grass, dust, eat bugs, and frolick in the sunshine.... I also LOVE my beautiful dark orange yolk eggs! Every week we bring our crate to the local AHO delivery/pick-up site, load up on the produce we order, and bring the farm to our home! I love that we get the freshest veggies and fruit that are in harvest for the week! Our $21 small crate this week included eggplant, zuchini, 2 types of squash, tomatoes, romaine lettuce, red onions, potatoes, 2 types of pears, apples, grapes, melon, basil, and avocados! The different weekly produce and the amazing fresh taste has motivated me to get creative with cooking, and I bet Brad is happy to have his wife cooking 3-4 dinners a week! Abundant Harvest Organics makes buying organic food super affordable (even cheaper than regular supermarkets!). They have wonderful service, great online ordering system, and they come out with weekly newsletters and delicious recipes. Our tummies are very happy! I can't wait to start making Taji's baby food!

Probiotics. Last but not least, let me introduce you to my little army of healthy bacteria that attack the bad bacteria from coating my stomach: Kendy Acti-Flora Probiotics. Go ahead and read up on all the benefits. Thanks to my friend Kristen Papac for motivating me to look into this. Do you have a little bacteria army looking out for your best interest and protecting you from the harmful things in our food? I am CONVINCED that my probiotics and Taji's BioGaia baby probiotic drops cured him from his abdominal pains and colic. Baby probiotics are being given more attention because of their effectiveness on colicky babies. And while I'm in the process of divulging what I consume.... check out Green Pastures Blue Ice Fermented Cod Liver Oil and Butter Oil.... one of the most beneficial if not THE most beneficial vitamin supplement you will ever need to take. DHA, Omega-3's......etc, its got ALL of them and has the highest potency and absorbency.

Tuesday, September 14, 2010

L.O.L part 2

As promised....... a sweet moment that captures Taji's adorable giggles! This is what I love to do all day long on the days that I am home with Taji..... shower him with kisses. We can't get enough of his dimples either!


I'm on a roll with these videos, aren't I? ha ha! I love taking videos of Taj, his personality shines through so much! And of course, we don't want Babi and Deda missing a moment!

rock n' roll baby

introducing...... our own little rolie polie :) Here is a video clip of Taj rolling from his tummy to his back when he was only 3 weeks old (thanks babi for all your training!). Look how tiny and determined he was!

Then sometime in his 2nd month, our little Taji became lazy and didn't feel like practicing his rolling as much so we kept working on the tummy time. In his 3rd month, with his neck stronger than ever, Taj began doing "baby push-ups" (lifting himself up on his elbows when laying on his tummy), and now he is rolling again! He is also crawling like an inch- worm! (he lifts his bottom up and pushes himself up on his knees). My favorite is when he lifts up his bottom as he rolls from his tummy to his back, so adorable! We are very proud of how strong Taji is getting and all the progress he has made in just the last 2 weeks! I still can't believe my little baby is already eager to crawl...... where is the time going, someone please hit the slow-motion button!!!!

Tuesday, September 7, 2010

Labor Day Weekend Fun

We had a great mix of father-son, mother-son, family, and friend quality time this long wknd. First, on Wednesday, the boys ordered pizza and let mommy have a girl's nite out with her friend Laura.


Thursday, Cade and his mommy Michelle came over for a playdate and we did a fabulous photo shoot with the boys. Here is a little preview of our little "twin" heart throbs :) On Friday, after work, we took a family stroll around the neighborhood and watched the sunset. On Saturday, we bought our usual bread and produce at our local Farmers Market. Taj is becoming quite the baby celebrity around town, riding in his babybjorn with his sunglasses on! He gets so many smiles and compliments! Here is a pic of the boys: After returning from our morning shopping & lunch, Brad went to go hang out with his buddies on the duffy while Taj and I headed to LA for some fun with Auntie Dina! Taj loves LA! He was such a good boy during the car ride, and loved chatting it up with Dina. We drove over to Third Street Promenade in Santa Monica, and checked out the new Santa Monica Place outside 3-level mall. It was so awesome, so many stores and restaurants! We had dinner at a cool sushi restaurant, it was Taji's first time at a Sushi place (mama's favorite food!) After dinner we made it just in time for some yummy cupcake desserts at our favorite Vanilla Bake Shop. Here he is with Auntie Dina at the sushi restaurant:

We had a blast hanging out with Dina and can't wait to come back and visit again..... Taji was sad to leave. Thanks Dina for your wonderful company!

After sleeping in on Sunday, we hit the road once again and visited our friends the Papac Family at their parents' house in Yorba Linda. We were excited to meet their new addition, William James Papac, only 4 weeks old. They treated us to a BBQ and Taji got to meet his new buddy for the first time. Thanks Papac Family for the warm hospitality, we always enjoy visiting you guys!
We finished the long holiday weekend with a nice family day on Monday. Taji modeled his cute Sailor outfit for babi & deda over Skype....
and then we hopped on our duffy, cruised around the bay, and walked around the Balboa Fun Zone. We stopped to take pictures and ate some tacos before heading back home.


What a fun and fullfilling weekend! Hope you had a good one too! xo
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