our story

It all began on the evening of Nov 29th 2003, at former Chat Noir French Restaurant in Costa Mesa, CA. Brad approached me [Jana] and we instantly connected; it was love at first sight. The next 4 years that followed were a whirlwind of romance, growing pains, and adventures. We circled the globe, traveling to South America, Europe, and Asia. Then one night, Brad surprised me with a romantic beachside proposal. We made it official on August 23rd 2008 with an intimate wedding at a hip art gallery in Laguna Beach. A year later we finished redesigning our home in the beach village of Corona del Mar.

On May 18th, 2010, we were blessed with a sweet little miracle of our own, our baby boy Taj Leon. He stole our hearts and took our breath away! Then, 19 months later, his incredible little brother, Jax Franz, arrived on Christmas morning (December 25th) 2011. What an amazing gift we received! In an effort to slow down the clock and enjoy our beautiful family, in Spring of 2012, we sold our CA seaside home and moved across the country to our dream lake house in Brad's hometown of Bemus Point, a resort village on Chautauqua Lake in Western New York! Even though we are living a more slow paced life, we are living a life far from ordinary!

From the West Coast to the East Coast, our Grover family adventures continue! So won't you come along and join us on this journey of love, family, and travel we like to call our La Vida Grover!

Wednesday, August 29, 2012

Our Boathouse

 Okay, so you've seen the cottage, the new house, the backyard..... but you haven't seen the boathouse and our dock yet!  The boathouse (nicknamed "smokehouse" by the guys for obvious reasons ;) is Brad's little man cave, where he and guys play poker, cards, just hang, and.... yup, smoke.  At least its aways from the house, where the kiddos can't see them, and we the women can't smell 'em!   The boathouse is the original little cottage on the property from many years ago.  Did you know that the land our house sits on plus 2 other acres around was originally an Inn with numerous little cottages dispersed on the hill?!  The big Maples trees than run along the side of our house are actually perfectly spread out so that in between them there was once used to be a carriage route (where horse and carriages would ride up the hill to the Inn, that used to be where our neighbor's house now sits.)  Its so fascinating to hear the history, and I'm on a mission to dig up those photos from the Historical Society.



The quaint little boathouse on the lakefront with our house directly behind it on the hill:







Inside..... can you see the card table?

The kitchenette..... (it also has a little bathroom with a shower!) Very convenient for guests, parties, or just a place to hang out when we get off the boat).:

Taji ready to ride with Daddy, he loves going on the boat:

There they go!


What I love most about the boathouse, is that it is an extension of our home, right on the lake.  Its another place to go hang out, eat, play by the water, entertain friends, house guests, and its a wonderful place for dates and quiet time.  Brad has taken Taj fishing out on the dock too.  Its also a great spot for those bonfires and picnics as the kids get older.

Monday, August 27, 2012

Presque Isle, PA

We just got back from a little tropical escape. A 45 minute escape out-of-state.  Presque Isle, Pennsylvania!  Another "beach", its actually a little island that juts off from the city of Erie in PA.  A state park with several beaches and harbor.  Its so pretty.  The lush nature, the white sand, and beautiful water....... I forgot we were on Lake Erie and not on a Hawaiian island!
Beach 7 is where all the families go because of the shallow water for the kids to play in, easy parking and access to the beach, and a big cool playground right next to it.  We had an awesome beach day, couldn't have asked for better weather and environment.





So much water play!  Lots of splashing, jumping, messing around, and even "walking"in the water (a first for Taj.....)




                                               

LOVE all these photos I took of the boys, every single one makes me smile.






Zerbert time!  Daddy giving Jax a zerbert while Taji gives Daddy a zerbert!



Then it was mommy's turn....... Taji wouldn't let me go without giving me one!

Oh, what an amazing family day at the beach!  Even though we are miles from the ocean, and so far from our old California beach stomping grounds..... we may just have found the next best thing (or place!)

Chautauqua Love

We live on , and LOVE Chautauqua Lake.  It is the center of our universe right now.... we wake up to the sight of it, we watch it all day long, we drive past it and play right next to it.  AND we play right on it, on our boat!  This past weekend we had a love affair with it!  We went boating at Sandy Bottoms (photo above) and then after the boys' naps we took the boat over to Chautauqua Institution (a beautiful and historic education/culture center) and had dinner there.  Its only open for the summer season, and this was the last weekend to visit.







heading back home after dinner:

Taj doing a silly little dance before getting back on our boat...




Bye Bye Chautauqua Institution!  We look forward to coming back here in the Winter for some sleigh rides, and then coming back to visit next summer!


The Big Bad Virus

Guess what came knocking on our door of our new house in our 2nd week? And infected poor Jax, and made our household very sick?  The big bad virus.  The Hand Foot Mouth virus.  Boooo.  We hate it.  Not sure where Jax picked up this virus..... could have been anywhere I guess because his pediatrician told us its "peak" season for this common children's virus.  We mistook it for teething as Jax developed a fever the saturday night we went out with our Bemus Crew.  That whole night and next day, Jax continued running a fever, was very fussy, couldn't nap, or eat solids.  He only nursed and wanted to be held.  Our poor baby was miserable.  Then late Sunday afternoon he all of a sudden developed a rash that spread over his cheeks and hands.  His fever spiked to 102, and we rushed him to the ER.  Jax's first time in the emergency room in New York!  The ER was great, we were first priority since our baby was sick and right away they detected the problem, it was the HFM disease caused by the virus.  The awful thing is that there is no medicine or treatment for this.  You can give Ibuprofen, Tylenol, and Benadryl to soothe the discomfort, but the virus has to ride its course. 
 Once the rash appeared and spread to Jax's legs and feet, his fever completely disappeared, and he started feeling good again.  Jax was back to his old self the next morning after our ER visit.  He still preferred to nurse (the other symptom is blister sores in the throat, causing pain and discomfort while eating.)

The rash was the worst part of the whole virus, for Jax.   It was interesting that the rest of us got a variation of the virus as well.  Taj was feverish Monday evening through Wednesday (his fever even spiked to 103!) but he barely had a rash (a flew blister bumps on the soles of his feet and fingers.)  On Tuesday I felt like I had the flu.  As the morning went on, my symptoms progressively got worse.  I had chills, cold hands and feet, felt weak and queasy, and zero appetite.  I could barely stand or eat, and since Brad was fighting a cold himself and needed to catch up on work in the office, I was so grateful to my mother-in-law (Grandma Sue) and Poppa Gene for coming over and helping.  They took care of the boys all afternoon and evening so I could get much needed rest.  I will say, that day was the absolute worst day for me, I have never felt sicker.  I don't know how I could have taken care of my babies feeling as sick as I did.  I took medicine every 4 hours for 2 days straight, then it turned into the weirdest rash.  My blister bumps were below my skin versus above my skin.  I had a rash on the inside of the palm of my hand and soles of my feet.  My hands and feet felt like they were sunburned, and it was so difficult for me to do anything with my hands (especially opening bottles, washing dishes, cooking, and giving the boys a bath.)  Luckily, the boys and I had a comfortable home and backyard to recuperate in, until we were no longer contagious.  We regained our strength and health, and were back to our routine the following week.  We had so much support from everyone around us.  That's the thing about living in a small town, word gets around very fast when someone gets sick.  Our friends were checking in on us every day and offering to get us groceries at the store.  Our friends Matt and Laura (who were visiting from Colorado the week we got sick) even brought over homemade chicken soup in a slow-cooker (the slow-cooker was a housewarming gift from them.)  It was so thoughtful, and the soup was the prefect remedy.  Now that we are healthy again, so glad all of this is behind us...... where did our August go?  Geez, we spent a big chunk of it being sick! I guess thats what we get for being hermits, it made us more vulnerable to catching a nasty virus the second we went out in public!
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