our story

It all began on the evening of Nov 29th 2003, at former Chat Noir French Restaurant in Costa Mesa, CA. Brad approached me [Jana] and we instantly connected; it was love at first sight. The next 4 years that followed were a whirlwind of romance, growing pains, and adventures. We circled the globe, traveling to South America, Europe, and Asia. Then one night, Brad surprised me with a romantic beachside proposal. We made it official on August 23rd 2008 with an intimate wedding at a hip art gallery in Laguna Beach. A year later we finished redesigning our home in the beach village of Corona del Mar.

On May 18th, 2010, we were blessed with a sweet little miracle of our own, our baby boy Taj Leon. He stole our hearts and took our breath away! Then, 19 months later, his incredible little brother, Jax Franz, arrived on Christmas morning (December 25th) 2011. What an amazing gift we received! In an effort to slow down the clock and enjoy our beautiful family, in Spring of 2012, we sold our CA seaside home and moved across the country to our dream lake house in Brad's hometown of Bemus Point, a resort village on Chautauqua Lake in Western New York! Even though we are living a more slow paced life, we are living a life far from ordinary!

From the West Coast to the East Coast, our Grover family adventures continue! So won't you come along and join us on this journey of love, family, and travel we like to call our La Vida Grover!

Thursday, January 16, 2014

23 days of Elf on the Shelf

Meet our Elf on a Shelf "Shawnie" (Taji named her, pretty cute, right?) She arrived in a box with a book on the 1st of December.  The boys were so excited to have a new buddy.  Every morning, the boys would run downstairs looking for her, and every time they found her in a different spot doing something silly.  They loved the whole idea.  This was our first year that Shawnie came to stay with us, and already the boys are counting down the days until they see her again.  Jax doted on her every morning, sometimes taking her with him into his crib, he loved to hug her, and still asks "where did Shawnie go?"






















Then on the morning of Christmas Eve, they found her hiding in a special gift (the only gift at the time) under the tree.  She brought them their favorite treats and snacks to munch on, and said farewell to them until next Christmas!  Shawnie truly brought magic and wonder to these boys this Christmas!

Holiday Festivities

Christmas Party at the Chautuaqua Lake Yacht Club




Mama Jana got a new shorter 'do
more parties and dinner date nights


Mother-son gingerbread house making class at Wegman's grocery store



Picking out our 2013 Christmas tree, 
no cutting our own tree this year because it was too cold and too much snow!




An Entire Decade!

Brad and I celebrated 10 years of us first meeting at Chat Noir french restaurant (back out in Costa Mesa, CA, which sadly does not exist anymore!).  Cannot believe we have been together a whole decade!  5 years married, with 2 little boys, living in New York….. who would have thought?  And it was all because of that one night November 28th, 2003, when this handsome young fellow dressed in a suit and tie, approached a 7-years-her-senior gal, at the bar.  His infamous pick-up line was "Bonjour", and when I asked if he was French, he peaked my interestand made my heart race at his response, "No, I'm smashed!."  Ahhh, doesn't that just completely represent Brad, and our years of courtship?  I think so!
For our 10th anniversary, we drove up to Buffalo for dinner at Anthony Bourdain's favorite seafood restaurant and then to a Matisyahu concert!  Matisyahu songs are close to our hearts during the last 5+ years, his songs are all about love, devotion, and hope.  His concert was amazing.  It was a very intimate venue.  The boys did great staying home with our sitter, especially since we didn't get home until after midnight!  It was first time away that far (1.5 hours north) and that long of a period (8 hours) away from the boys.  Our babysitter did a fantastic job caring for our boys, feeding them dinner, and putting them to bed!
I hope the next decade of our love is all about dating and courting each other, like we did prior to having kids, despite having kids and many more stressful obligations.   Its so important to keep that fire ignited and to have dates and adventures such as this one!

Thanksgiving 2013



We had a gobble-riffic and our first "white" Thanksgiving with our friends, the Benson family, and Brad's buddy Chris (whose wife was out of town.)  I made my award-winning bacon-blanketed herb turkey again, and also got creative with the turkey inspired vegetable platter and fox pumpkin pie slices!  We had quite the feast and wine fest all evening long!








our first wood-burning fire of the season!


The next morning, Jax showed off all the wine bottles we drank through (mostly the guys who partied all night long)….. his favorite being his of course! (Jax Vineyards!)

The morning after Turkey Day, we took the boys sledding with some friends.


They all had a race!




Then over the weekend, we decided to try out the hibachi table at the new Fuji Sushi & Japanese Steakhouse.  It was the boys' first time eating at a hibachi table, and they were both intrigued and frightening!  The fire, noise, food throwing, and sake squirting was a little too much for them, but they could not look away!



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